The Heart of Christmas: Giving Back, Finding Joy, and Supporting Each Other
Hey Friend,
The air is colder, lights are twinkling, and Christmas is just around the corner. This time of year always feels like an invitation to step back and soak in the warmth of the season—not just in our homes but in our hearts. But for some, the holidays can also feel heavy, especially if they’re navigating loss or loneliness.
It’s a reminder to me of how important it is to give back and spread love in any way we can. This Thanksgiving, my son and I spent gave back to displaced families—a tradition we’ve carried on together. And this Christmas, as we do every year, we’ll be donating to toy drives to bring a little joy to children who might otherwise go without. Giving back reminds me of love, grace, and generosity.
At the same time, my heart goes out to those who feel the ache of loneliness during the holidays. If that’s you, know that your feelings are valid and you are seen. As the soulful song asks, “What do the lonely do at Christmas?”—I want you to know that there’s no “right” way to feel during the holidays. Whether you’re filled with joy or finding your way through sorrow, this season holds space for it all.
The Spirit of Giving: Big and Small Ways to Give Back
At the heart of Christmas is the spirit of giving—not just in the form of wrapped presents but in the kindness and love we share. It’s in the way we show up for others, the time we offer, and the way we extend grace to those who need it.
Whether it’s donating to a toy drive, volunteering at a shelter, or simply reaching out to someone who might need a kind word, there are countless ways to make a difference this season. Remember, the size of the gesture doesn’t matter; it’s the intention behind it that counts.
Finding Joy and Offering Support
This season, I encourage you to embrace both giving and receiving—of love, support, and grace. Whether it’s through acts of service or allowing yourself to rest and reflect, the holidays can be a time to refill your cup as well as pour into others’.
If you’re feeling lonely this Christmas, here are a few gentle ways to find comfort and connection:
1. Reach Out
Don’t be afraid to reach out to friends, family, or community groups. Whether it’s a phone call, a virtual gathering, or attending a holiday service, small moments of connection can bring warmth to your heart.
2. Give of Yourself
Sometimes the best way to ease loneliness is to focus outward. Volunteer at a local shelter, join a toy drive, or write cards to those in need. Giving back can remind you of the beauty of connection and purpose.
3. Create Your Own Tradition
If the holidays don’t look like they once did, create new traditions that feel meaningful to you. Whether it’s baking cookies, decorating your home, or simply reflecting on what you’re grateful for, small rituals can bring comfort.
4. Practice Gratitude
Even in tough seasons, there are small blessings to hold onto—a warm cup of cocoa, the sound of your favorite Christmas song, or a memory that brings you joy. Let these moments remind you of the light that still exists.
5. Lean Into Faith
Remember that the Christmas season is about God’s love and grace. Let your faith carry you through the hard days, and trust that His plans for you are good, even when the journey feels unclear.
Coming Home to Yourself
This Christmas, coming home to yourself means embracing the spirit of giving—both to others and to yourself. It’s about offering grace to those around you and allowing yourself the same kindness. Remember, joy is not about perfect circumstances but about finding beauty in the small, meaningful moments.
Your Journey Awaits
As you move through this holiday season, remember that the most precious gifts often can’t be wrapped. They’re found in the love you share, the kindness you offer, and the peace you nurture within yourself. This week, I hope you’ll take a moment to give back, reflect, and hold space for the beauty of the season.
With so much love,
T 🌹